recent posts

50 Shades of Triggery as Shit

I do a lot of things with science fiction conventions, including doing panels on sex and culture.  So, I thought it would be funny to do a panel on 50 Shades of Grey, called 50 Shades of WTF?  Only, I didn’t expect the book to be so fucking triggery for me....

Privacy Versus Career: Deathm...

I wonder a lot if posting the things I post, here and at Geek Girls Rule!, and owning them with my real name and all, hurts my chances when I’m looking for jobs.  I wonder if I should tone down the rhetoric and play a little nicer, take out the swears, and be...

Fighting the Good Fight and Fi...

WARNING:  I’m angry as fuck in here.  And I know that has a tendency to fluster the delicate constitutions of the dudes in the audience.  I’m not in the least little bit interested in being nice about this shit.  Straw. Camel. Back. This is an edit of a...

Lookism and Love

I’ve blogged about his obliquely before, mostly on the Geek Girls Rule! blog, where I talk about men who fancy themselves “in love” with some woman they’ve never met or actually spoken to, based solely on her appearance.  Over there I spoke...

Podcast: “Nice GuysR...

So, I try not to do this very often, but this is an important subject.  On my other blog Geek Girls Rule!, I had two guys on the podcast to talk about “Nice Guys” and about how not to rape.  The reason I did this is because Geek Culture has a lot of...

Review: Adult Entertainment: ...

Ok, I went in to this expecting to find an actually non-biased documentary about the adult entertainment industry.  I was sadly disappointed.  I’m not entirely sure I can finish watching it.  First off, the film-maker’s “study” consisted of...

Review: America the Beautiful...

I had gotten mixed reviews on America the Beautiful 2 from other folks in the Body Acceptance movement who watched it when it first aired, and then I kind of forgot it existed until it popped up on on my “You might like…” listings on Netflix.  So I...